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Where Is The Love?

by Unknown


Imagine for a second that a young couple so deep in love that they can't see beyond each other's eyes, plan out not only a pending wedding but as well what will be a blueprint for the rest of their lives together.

Next imagine that for one night all is forgotten. It's funny how your world can turn upside down in an instant either for good or the bad. The ironic thing is that she wound up doing both to me. Now I have some simple philosophies about relationships and one of them just seems to be about trust.

"I will always trust you until you give me a reason not to." She said that there was going to be a girl's nite out at a local club and I told her I was fine with it because she needed it (We were both going through some stress at the time). After finding out that she had already decided not to come back till around 3 in the morning, I decided to make plans for myself so as I wouldn't be left alone all night. I went to the other side of town to hang out with my best friend whom I haven't seen for a long while. I planned everything out perfectly so that I would be at home right around 3 about the same time as her. Well as the night progressed I was starting to get a little dependant on her call. I was waiting to hear how here night was going or for her to as how my night was going...... no call at all.

Right around 2 I decided to call her it was no surprise that she was totally wasted but thanks to her friend from work she was able to get home safely. I rushed to get back home but was only able to make it by 3 like I had intended. As I entered our apartment I found her boots lying in the living room and also found her sound asleep in the room. Now here is the part where I do admit that I could be wrong. As I was setting up to go to sleep as well, I checked her phone and her text messages only to find that she had sent various messages to someone named Anna. By my own knowledge Anna is a female name but these messages weren't made out on that fact. It seemed that she was sending messages to someone named Ricky which I can only think was her ex-boyfriend before I came along a year ago. You also have to keep in mind, that was the last piece of the puzzle that confirmed my suspicions. On earlier occasions she would step out of a room to make a call, became very private about the things she did when I wasn't around, and to top it all off was acting very separated towards me. I think that if it looks like shit, smells like shit, then 10 times out of 10 it is shit. My only assumption was that she is cheating on me. Now here I am, the following day pouring my heart out to anyone that will listen. Everything I have in life is in her. My family is in another state, we've invested so much into each other, and basically outside of this I have nothing. Just in case your wondering if i'm making myself look like a saint, i'm gonna give you some quick details about myself. I'm not a drinker, or a smoker. I'm from what people tell me funny, caring, and at sometimes out going. I have never done anything to harm her and have treated her like a queen. I guess I am a saint after all.

any advice?

I guess with everything in life we are just going to wait and see the outcome. I really appreciate you taking the time to read my story.

 

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Hey man i have some advice though it is purely up to you how you want to take it. First let me tell you that i was in the same boat my friend, though i wasn't living with my girlfriend. I was living a city away from her but frequently visited her as much i possibly could. I was in college and she was still in high school. She started to hang out with my best friend a lot, and i never thought anything suspicious until she was getting rides from him EVERYDAY and they did EVERYTHING together. I didn't like it and i confronted her about it, and she kept telling me nothing was going to happen they were just friends. There were times that I would play with her phone and she would snatch it back afraid i might go through it. Well i got really fed up with the whole thing so i sat her down one day and had a heart to heart with her. I told her i don't care if your friends with him, but just tell me one thing, "Am i your man, and are you my woman? and will you ever betray me?" She said NO. Later down the road i found out she cheated on me with him.

So as for my advice, i know that it may seem that im young but i've learned a lot through a lot of heartbreaks. I see only two paths that you have. Either cut your heart a break and call it quits before things get out of hand and you end up hurting yourself more. Your going to end up thinking about her a lot and be very hurt but it might be something you have to do. The second choice you have...you gotta learn the hard way. Whether it be from lies deciet or someone else telling you. But at this time it'll hurt even more, so prepare yourself. Being "just friends" with some other guy sometimes isn't the right path a woman in love is suppose to take. I myself even wish that i ended my relationship earlier instead of later. And here i am with the broken heart and her enjoying her new boyfriend and being all smiles.

As for my last word on this matter. "Don't let time dictate your choices that you might have to make." Which means, you might have to break it off whether you have been dating her for a long time or not. I've learned that things turn sour and it turns fast. Take care. ~Davis Nguyen

 

   
 

 

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